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The Missing Piece

I have a book in my hands. The purpose of the book: education for girls about their bodies as they grow. I am a HUGE FAN of information. Education is power in the sense that we cannot make decisions that support ourselves if we don’t KNOW ourselves. So thank you, to all the wonderful people out there who are writing these books.
AND— (THIS IS A GIANT AND——)
AND, there is still one missing piece!
A piece that will change everything for growing girls. A piece that will inspire them to write their own story of what it means to be female. (And for your pleasure, I've written the missing piece if anyone wants to cut and paste it into your current bookshelf.)
“Girl, you cycle with the moon and your cycle is sacred.
Girl, your body is the most incredible thing ever created, and the fact that it prepares itself every single month for the continuation of life is awe-inspiring and holy.
Girl, you ARE the representation of everlasting life. You create anew, you live, you die and begin again and again and again.
The very best way to feel deeply fulfilled as a woman is to know and honor the cyclical rhythm of YOU!"
"Your growing body is made EXACTLY right for you, and listening to it will be all the wisdom you need. The stages of your cycle will guide you through your need to rest, your need to create, your need to be seen, and your need to learn and start again.
Girl, you represent that good always wins. That life will always continue. That nothing is ever lost. That new starts are always just around the corner."
THAT, my girl- is what it means to be female.

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